By Natalie Clarke
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Giggling mischievously and poking out his tongue at his younger brother, Michael Clark hides a Mr Potato Head toy behind the living-room curtains.Â
Unfazed by these antics, a subdued Matthew is curled up on the sofa, snuggling up to his father.
It sounds like the sort of thing that could occur in any family home where there are small children.
However, in this case, the âchildrenâ are 42 and 39 years old.
Adults though they may be, Michael and Matthew Clark are both childlike, infantile and utterly lacking any self-awareness.Â
The brothers have been diagnosed with leukodystrophy â" a rare genetic disorder that causes a progressive loss of speech and movement.
In the case of Michael and Matthew, it has also made them slowly regress into a childlike state.
Where they were once men, they are now young boys, trapped in adult bodies.Â
Their plight has led to them being likened to the character played by Brad Pitt in the fi lm The Curious Case Of Benjamin Button, an old man who gradually becomes younger.

The brothers, Matthew (left) and Michael, have been diagnosed with leukodystrophy - a rare genetic disorder that causes a progressive loss of speech and movement
For their parents, Christine and Anthony Clark, it is heartbreaking. âThere are no words to describe how we feel. Itâs devastating,â says Mr Clark, the man who watched both of his sons grow up and marry, who looked on proudly as Michael joined the RAF and Matthew became a father himself.Â
âChristine and I lay on the sofa each night and the tears flow very freely. Our biggest fear is that they will outlive us and then who will look after them?âÂ
Following the brothersâ diagnosis last summer, a number of eminent specialists from around the world flew to the UK to discuss the case, but were left baffled by their symptoms.
The two men still look their age, albeit with a disarming air of innocence about them, but they are beginning to exhibit physical signs of their regression back into childhood, manifested by the loss of most of their leg and chest hair.
Michael recently moved into Matthewâs one-bedroom council maisonette in Lincoln. I n January, Anthony and Christine returned from their retirement home in Spain to look after them.
Unable to sell their Spanish property, and with no money to buy a bigger place, all four are now sharing the maisonette â" a pressure-cooker environment for any sort of family, let alone one as extraordinary as the Clarks.
When I visit, I find the set-up strange, almost surreal, as though the clock has been turned back 35 years and the children living at home are unruly toddlers rather than strapping men.Â
In the corner of the room is a railway set that Matthew spends hours each day playing with. There is also a big pile of DVDS, Harry Potter movies and Disney films, which the brothers love. Although they tease and tickle one another, they are listless for much of the time. Matthew is especially clingy with his parents, needing constant cuddles and reassurance.Â
Both were once married, but memories of their wives are hazy. Matthew has a 19-year-old daughter, Lydia, but is now incapable of assuming any sort of fatherly role.
There were never any i ndications of what was to befall them as the boys were growing up in Ottringham, near Hull, with their parents, Anthony, a 63-year-old former prison officer, and his wife, Christine, 61.

Heartbreaking: Parents Christine and Anthony Clark say tears flow freely each night as they think about the future for their sons Matthew (right) and Michael
âThey had completely normal childhoods,â recalls Mrs Clark. âMatthew was outgoing, Michael was quite shy. They were average pupils at school, although Michael was good at maths.â
After leaving school, Matthew took a job in a pottery store, checking for faults in merchandise. Twenty years ago, he met Juliet Kidby, and their daughter Lydia was born in 1993. They married two years later and settled in Hull. But the marriage lasted only five years and, in 2000, a newly single Matthew moved to Lincoln to start afresh, but was unable to find employment.
âWe donât know if the marriage ending and his not getting work was to do with the condition,â says Christine. âWe assume so, and that it was slowly beginning to affect him. We do know that Matthew was becoming moody and he and his wife were arguing a lot.â
Michael, meanwhile, became a gunner with the RAF but had to leave aged 22 after suffering a knee injury. He went on to become a cabinet-mak er.
In 2001 Michael married his wife, Jo, and moved to Lincoln to be near his brother. The marriage collapsed after five years, however, just like Matthewâs. Again, details of the marriage breakdown are sketchy.Â

Glowing with health: Michael (left) and Matthew as happy children before an signs of the disease
âAll we know is that his wife asked him to leave,â says Christine.Â
âHe came to stay with us for six weeks after the marriage split and was acting like a moody adolescent. He didnât want to do anything, he wouldnât tidy his room, and he was moping about. He couldnât settle with us and moved back to Lincoln.Â
âWe think now that they were both slowly developing symptoms which, of course, affected their marriages.â
In 2006 Mr and Mrs Clark moved to the Forest of Dean and, although they kept in close contact, were unable to visit their sons as often as they would have liked.Â
At the time, nothing seemed amiss when we went to visit them, but with hindsight there were signs,â says Mrs Clark. âThey looked scruffy, as though they were letting themselves go.â
In 2007, after Mr Clark left the Prison Service, the couple bought a house in the village of Finestrat, on the Costa Blanca. It was supposed to be a long-term move, so they could enjoy their retirement in the sun. But the well-earned rest they had planned was not to be.Â
Last May, Michael was evicted from his flat because he had let it become virtually dilapidated. He took to sleeping rough in a local park.Â
His parents had no idea. They had been trying to call their sons for several weeks and texting them but could not reach them.
After three weeks, Michael was directed to a Salvation Army hostel. Staff there realised something was very wrong and arranged for him to be assessed in hospital. Doctors initially thought he might have Huntingtonâs disease, a neurodegenerative genetic disorder that affects muscle coordination and leads to cognitive and psychiatric problems.
The doctors asked Michael if he had any siblings; he gave them Matthewâs address. Matthew was found by medical staff at his maisonette, living with no gas and electricity, barely any food and patently unable to care for himself. The doctors who sought him out may have saved his life.
Now thankfully under the care of doctors, the brothers spend time in and out of hospital in Sheffield undergoing MRI scans and various tests. It took three months before the proper diagnosis last August.
Leukodystrophy refers to a group of neurological disorders caused by genetic damage to the myelin sheath, the protective covering that surrounds nerve fibres in the brain.
When the nerve endings are damaged, the brain stops sending out correct messages and the body is unable to perform basic functions, such as walking and talking. In Michael and Matthewâs case, they were also displaying childlike mannerisms.
But what had caused it?
âNobody knows exactly,â says Mr Clark, âbut it is a genetic condition. Chris and I have been told it is likely we have the same gene deficiency and that there is a one in three billion chance of two people with the same gene deficiency meeting and becoming parents.Â
âAnd our both ha ving this deficiency has caused this to happen to our sons.Â
âThere is no cure and they donât know how to treat it. We still canât quite believe it. You just imagine there is some sort of cure out there for every disease.Â
âItâs very rare â" a lady who runs a research charity says there are a hundred known cases in Britain.â
As for whether Matthewâs daughter could develop the disease, Mr Clark says: âOur understanding is that this only occurs in the children of parents with the same gene deficiency. So that means Lydia is only at risk if Matthewâs wife also had the same gene deficiency, and Lydiaâs own children would be at risk if both she and her partner had the same gene deficiency.â
Mr and Mrs Clark flew to the UK to see their sons in December and were shocked at how quickly they had deteriorated. They knew instantly that they had to return to England full-time to, once again, take care of them.Â
Today Michael and Ma tthew need around-the-clock care.
Benjamin Button: Brad Pitt played a character in the 2009 film, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, who resembled an old man in his youth and became physically more youthful as he aged
âWhen Matthew wakes up, he is in a state of confusion and throws himself about. He looks afraid, and says: âMummy, help me,âââ says Mr Clark. âMichael is the opposite. He wakes up happy and the first thing he does is blow a cheeky raspberry at us.
âThe boys are unable to dress themselves, so we get them ready and then we do something to get Matthewâs mind focused again, like playing a board game.
âMealtimes are a bit of a challenge. They make a hell of a mess between them. Itâs very much like feeding two toddlers. Michael holds the fork too near the prongs and spills it.â
Matthew and Michael spend much of their time watching childrenâs films. âThey love Disney films, their favourite at the moment is one called Bolt, about a dog,â says Mrs Clark.Â
During our interview, Michael giggles to himself from time to time and fiddles with Mr Potato Head, while Matthew gazes at me shyly. At one point, he reaches over to his father, lifts up the leg of his jeans and tickles him.Â
WHAT IS LEUKODYSTROPHY?
Leukodystrophies are a group of rare genetic disorders that affect the central nervous system.
They disrupt the growth or maintenance of the myelin sheath that insulates nerve cells.
These disorders are progressive, meaning that they tend to get worse throughout the life of the patient.
All leukodystrophies are a result of problems with the growth or maintenance of the myelin sheath. However, there are many genes that are important in this process.
Defects in any of the genes (called a mutation) may lead to a leukodystrophy. However, the symptoms of the individual leukodystrophies may vary because of the differences in their genetic cause.
But for most of the time the two men are quiet because speech is difficult. âThey know something is wrong, but they donât know what has happened to them,â says Mrs Clark.
Michael chuckles when his mother reminds him about the hedgehog-shaped cake they bought him for his birthday in March.
When she tells me they went out for fish and chips to celebrate Anthonyâs birthday in April, Michael laughs again and jokes about the size of the fish: âWhale and chips,â he giggles.Â
Since both brothers now think and act like young children, neither gives any thought to women or relationships. The fact remains, however, that, as childlike as Matthew may be, he is a father. His daughter, Lydia, lives with her partner in Hull. Tragically, her mother died a couple of years ago
er several times since the diagnosis, told me: âUntil he was diagnosed last summer, I hadnât seen my dad since I was 13. I thought it was because he wasnât bothered an d it was actually a relief to find out it was because he was unwell.
âSeeing him how he is now, childlike and struggling with his speech, is strange. Itâs very upsetting for me because, when I was growing up, he was a great dad. He was really hard-working and, at one point, had three jobs on the go to make sure there was enough money for us.Â
âAlthough obviously he is very different now, he does understand that I am his daughter and that he has a grandchild on the way.
âHe is excited about becoming a grandfather, even though he canât express his feelings as well as he used to be able to.â
Over the past few months, Matthewâs movement has deteriorated markedly. He is now unable to walk unaided and uses a wheelchair.Â
The family try to get out and about, but it is a struggle. And their current home is far too small for all of them. âThe property market in Spain is dead, so weâre stuck,â says Mr Clark.Â
âWhat we want t o do is move into a bungalow near the Hull area, where we have family. Weâve applied to the council, but have no news yet. Itâs very difficult for us, sharing this little place, with Christine and I sleeping on sofas. We get no rest.âÂ
At the moment, the future looks bleak. âNo one knows whether Matthew and Michael will get worse, or stay the same,â says Mrs Clark. âBut they wonât get better.â
The brothers continue to see a neurologist at Lincoln County Hospital. âThey want them to go in for more tests, but they find it very stressful and itâs not going to help them,â adds Mrs Clark. âItâs very hard. Seeing what has happened to them is so painful for us.
âWe just want to make them as happy as they can be. Weâre their parents and they need us.â
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I think I'm getting deja vu all over again. I could swear I read this story in the DM, by a different reporter, three days ago.
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The article states; "The doctors asked Michael if he had any siblings; he gave them Matthewâs address. Matthew was found by medical staff at his maisonette, living with no gas and electricity, barely any food and patently unable to care for himself. The doctors who sought him out may have saved his life". That would never happen in the US. You never even get to talk to your doctor on the phone. You are so lucky to have NHS in the UK.
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This is NOTHING like a real-life "Benjamin Button" situation. - Jim, Omaha, US, 05/05/2012 Jim your an idiot.
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Well done also to the Salvation Army and the Doctors involved. While a far from perfect system, this is a positive outcome from having a publicly owned health service.
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This is NOTHING like a real-life "Benjamin Button" situation.
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Is Natalie Clarke not aware that Jill Reilly wrote an article on this family on the 1st of May? Does she not read the paper she writes for.?
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OMG, this is terribly sad. My heart goes out to these men, their parents and their children. It must be terrible to WATCH your children die slowly like this. How sad indeed.
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what marvellous brave devoted parents these two young men have. I hope that telling their story will give them the help and support they so clearly need. Mr and Mrs Clark, you are a huge inspiration to us all.
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God love them. What loving parents these two men have. Is there anyone out there with a spacious bungalow to rent in the Hull area? I hope they get the support they need very soon.
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So sad, i have seen the strain of what happens to carer's, it does'nt matter if its kids taking care of adults or the other way round,. it will affect your own mental and physical health. and at the end of the day if Mr and Mrs Clark dont get any help and can't look after their boys it will cost far much for 24 round the clock care than it would to give them the housing and support they need now rather than later.
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