By Frances Childs
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Holding out my hand I stare into the surly face of a large, angry teenage girl. âGive me the phone,â I say in as calm a voice as I can muster. Truculently, 15-year-old Lisa glares at me. âWhat phone?â she asks belligerently as she stuffs it back into her bag.
At this point I have a choice. I can demand that she hand the phone over; she will refuse. I can raise my voice and insist; sheâll swear at me. I can give her a detention that she wonât turn up to. Or I can decide not to waste any more lesson time and focus on the majority of the class who really want to learn and accept that, once again, a rude, disruptive child has scored a victory.
I make my decision. Turning my back I attempt to salvage some authority by telling Lisa not to let me see her phone again. âWhat phone is that, Miss?â she sneers.

Battle: Teachers are facing a very difficult battle against pupils and parents regarding the intereference of the mobile phone
Very few teachers, especially female teachers, want to physically grapple a phone from a teenagerâs hand. Girls as well as boys are likely to fly off the handle and no teacher wants to provoke a violent confrontation.
And what member of staff would want to deal with the outraged parental complaint that would inevitably follow?
Forget the old-fashioned notion that a parent might actually back the teacher and berate their brazen child. As well as out-of-control pupils, the beleaguered teacher of today also has to tackle mums and dads to whom discipline is often a dirty word.

Distraction: Parents increasingly expect teachers to be the instigators of discipline
Mobile phones sum up many of the things that are wrong in schools in modern Britain. They have become, quite simply, the scourge of the classroom. That is why many teachers, like myself, will applaud yesterdayâs announcement by Sir Michael Wilshaw, the Chief Inspector of Schools, that pupils face a ban on mobile phones in school as part of a new Ofsted crackdown on discipline.
Schools will be penalised for failing to tackle persistent low-level disruption in lessons under a tough new inspection regime being introduced next term.
This could force heads to forbid mobile phone use by pupils â" including texting, taking calls and surfing the web, often on porn sites â" to avoid being marked down by inspectors.
Teachers will breathe a sigh of relief at the news, not least because mobile phones are often used to intimidate and bully both children and staff.
When I first began teaching 15 years ago, I had to cope with youngster s chatting during lessons, occasionally being rude to me and the odd fight that would flare up out of nowhere.
By the time I left the profession two years ago, things were even worse. At that point, some children were not only gossiping to each other, interrupting lessons and fighting as they always had done â" they were also making and receiving calls, texting, and filming each other and members of staff.
Former colleagues who are still teaching tell me that footage of them trying to keep order is played back and waved aloft in order to undermine them. Iâve often heard stories of mocking clips ending up on the internet for the whole world to see.
Once it became possible to surf the web on mobiles, it soon became obvious to me what many of the pupils are looking at. A friend of mine who teaches in a Manchester comprehensive told me that she has to contend with sniggering, foul comments as porn is gloated over in class with little attempt to disguise what is happening. Sometimes a phone is openly passed around. Itâs unpleasant and embarrassing.
âInternet porn that children view on their mobiles in school is a huge problem,â says Leonie Hodge, founder of Teen Boundaries, an anti-cyber-bullying charity that works with children in schools. âWomen on these sites are violently assaulted and raped. Itâs warping youngsters, especially boys, and making healthy relationships very difficult.â

Scourge of the classroom: Mobile phones sum up much of what is wrong with schools in modern Britain
Given that mobiles cause so much trouble, the question which needs to be asked is, why were they ever allowed in schools in the first place? As a teacher I never understood why they hadnât been banned. But colleagues would explain that it would take a brave teacher to run the gauntlet of angry parents who insist their children be contactable at all hours of the day and night.
If the recent experience of my friend Joanne is anything to go by, they were right. She had confiscated one girlâs phone as she had been disrupting her lesson. But she hadnât even finished packing her bag at the end of the day before the girlâs enraged father turned up demanding his daughterâs mobile be returned.
Joanne patiently explained to him that she had decided to keep the phone until the following day as his daughter refused to turn if off in class, even accepting two calls during the lesson. âShe was chatting and laughing in my face. I simply canât have that,â Joanne told him.

Negative effect: Why were mobile phones ever allowed into schools in the first place?
Instead of apologising and assuring Joanne that he would have a word with his daughter, the father simply ratcheted up the aggression. He threatened Joanne with an official complaint and branded her a thief, before storming from the school.
As a mother myself, I understand that parents feel an extra sense of security when their children have their phones on the way to and from school. But when carried inside school, parents need to realise that phones can actually place their child in danger.
As technology has advanced, mobiles have become status symbols. Now not only do youngsters have to have the right trainers, they have to have the right phone, with all the gadgets.
Name-calling and bullying over children having the âwrong,â phone are rife. Muggings to steal coveted models on the way to and from school are common.
And then there are the attacks on teachers themselves. One of the first attacks I witnessed in school w as a fracas over a phone.
A colleague, Lydia, confiscated a phone from a teenage boy called Jason and was punched and kicked for having the temerity to do so.
This was about seven years ago, before phones had become more common in school bags than pens. Lydia was outraged when Jason got his phone out and started playing with it in the middle of a lesson.
When she demanded he hand it over, Jason grudgingly did so, but when she refused to give it back quickly enough at the end of the lesson, Jason lost his temper and lashed out.
Lydia was left terrified, seriously bruised and shocked at the level of anger directed at her. âHe just exploded,â she said.
Jason was permanently excluded â" something that will have affected his whole future.

Welcome: Sir Michael Wilshaw, the Chief Inspector of Schools, has announced that pupils face a ban on mobiles in school as part of an Ofsted crackdown on discipline
So yes, Sir Michael Wilshaw is absolutely right to target the problem of mobile phones in schools. But he is wrong to focus purely on what teachers and head teachers must do.
Parents are key to the battle. Sometimes I would call them at home and spell out just how disruptive their childâs phone use was. âJulie told me to f**ck off when I asked her to put her mobile phone away and concentrate on the lesson,â I told one mother.
âWell, the thing is, sheâs totally addicted to that phone,â came her mumâs blithe response.
And I think the reason for attitudes like this is that the toxic influence of the mobile phone isnât confined to classrooms and teenagers. Former colleagues tell me they have noticed an increasing tendency for mums to turn up at the school gates at primary schools speaking on their phones â" ignoring the little ones they havenât seen all day.
âI see them chatting away â" they donât even gi ve their five-year-olds a kiss,â one teacher in an affluent part of Sussex told me recently. âThey walk off down the street, the phone still glued to their ear.â
She has even had parents answer calls while they are speaking to her. âOnce I was talking to a mum about her sonâs difficulty in settling into school and she answered a phone call, leaving me standing there. I was amazed,â she recalls.
The lesson is clear. We canât just leave this problem to Sir Michael Wilshaw, heads and teachers. If we really want to stop mobile phones blighting our childrenâs education, parents have to lead the way and reach for the âoffâ button themselves.
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Most blame must rest on the shoulders of the parents. If there is a rule in the school no mobiles in the class room at any time thats. Any child caught breaking the rule, if not willing to hand over the device should be removed from the room so as the problem does not encouridge other to up the antie. The parents should be contacted and have to pay a fine say £20.00 to get the phone back. In the case of the child that hands over the phone with out trouble, they stay in the class so long as they behave. Then the parents should be fined £ 10.00 to get the phone back.. Any parent not prepared to back the school in this matter. Then they should be refered to the police. A charge of failing to support the school enforce an acceptable level of disapline in the childs upbring should be brought against the parents. No dout the H/rights crowd would be up in arms. So what! I want children to thrive and become useful members of society disapline lerning is part of this proceedure
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Stupid parents, still their offspring will be no competition for well brought up children. Thanks thickies.
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Hence why I am never having children in this country unless I can afford private schools. Thanks lefties, the so called parties for the people, you've actually RUINED the standards for the people. Again, many thanks.
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How have we ended up in this ridiculous situation when children and parents are in charge. Start again from the beginning and lets return to the only way our children can be taught, through discipline. No mobiles, introduce school uniforms, calling the teacher Sir or Madam and no interference from parents, unless there's a good reason.
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Nina - there is absolutely no need for phones in school and as for the excuse - well they might need it on their way in or on their way home - what a load of tosh - we never had such luxuries - its pathetic how we curtail to children these days - we need to get back into control before its too late
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Scum breeds scum. The kids are damaged by the time they get to school. The teachers have little chance of sorting them out.
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My son's secondary school accepts that children will have mobiles, especially as a lot of the children travel far and wide to get to school, it is stated that as long as teacher do not see or hear them they will be tolerated - otherwise confiscated - also if any children do not trust themselves to leave their phones alone during the day they can drop them off to the school reception for safe keeping on their way into scholol and then collect them at hometime. As far as I know this works very very well for all concerned
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Mobile phones are not necessary for a good education (my generation, unlike the present one, managed to learn to read and write without one), so perhaps the government should ban them from all school premises ... job done.
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'Mobile phones are a poison in our schools' a classic DM headline. There is a DM headline generator on-line somewhere that randomises past banners and adds the oft-use 'now' 'they' etc etc. My favourite was 'Are feral schoolchildren destroying Cliff Richard?' They're obviously fake but interestingly enough the sentiment is usually the same!
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I teach in a grammar school. All the students have mobile phones. this is not a problem, they have them switched off during lessons. Should they use one without permission it is confiscated, left at the school office and a parent/guardian has to collect it. I have never known this to happen. Just try and ban phones and see what a confrontational mess you get into. what are needed are enforced rules of usage.
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