Minggu, 13 Mei 2012

My perfect baby proves that jogging safe: Mother branded 'selfish cow' by running while pregnant tells of her 'textbook birth'

My perfect baby proves that jogging safe: Mother branded 'selfish cow' by running while pregnant tells of her 'textbook birth'

By Jenny Wright

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My gorgeous little girl Heidi was born on April 22 â€" weighing a healthy 7lb 6oz â€" blissfully unaware of the furore of which she would soon be the focus.

The reaction to my article about jogging while pregnant, published in last week’s Mail on Sunday, has been overwhelming.

Twitter has been awash with people debating the subject around the world.

In great shape: Jenny with Heidu, who weighed in at a healthy 7lb 6oz

In great shape: Jenny with Heidu, who weighed in at a healthy 7lb 6oz

There were hundreds of emails and comments posted by readers on the Mail’s website. I have given television and radio interviews, while other broadcasters held phone-ins on the subject.

The majority of people have been supportive, and like-minded women say they’re relieved that I’ve spoken out about this taboo subject.

But, predictably, I have also been attacked. ‘Someone should call the Child Protection Agency!’ said one online commentator, while another said I could have caused Heidi brain damage.

I was accused of exercising while pregnant in order to stop my husband Phill, who is managing director of a fitness company, from ‘pursuing some gym bunny while she [me] subjects herself to the mundane task of child-bearing’.

Another said my exercising was all about ‘feminism and an unrealistic obsession with women’s rights’.

Was it true that by exercising vigorously I was starving my baby of oxygen? Or that I risked having a child with shaken baby syndrome?

Reaction: Jenny Wright from Leeds, West Yorkshire, suffered verbal abuse after she continued to keep on running after she became pregnant

Reaction: Jenny Wright from Leeds, West Yorkshire, suffered verbal abuse after she continued to keep on running after she became pregnant

Both suggestions are nonsense, made by people  who have no understanding of how the human body works.

Worryingly, numerous women admitted that their own  midwives told them to stop being active despite there being no complications with their pregnancies.

I believe my fitness is the reason my 16-hour labour went by the book, other than needing a ventouse suction cap to turn Heidi from the spine-to-spine birth position.

I needed no pain relief. My midwife commented on how phy sically and mentally strong I still was.

Within five minutes of birth, babies are given the so-called Apgar score. It determines their post-delivery health by scoring their heart rate, colour, muscle tone, respiratory effort and reflex.

The scores are added together for a maximum of ten, with most babies scoring between seven and nine. Heidi achieved 9.5.

She’s feeding well and my fitness is standing me in good stead to cope with the demands of having a newborn who wakes every few hours during the night. Now that I’ve had my baby, exercise is just as important to me.

As advised by my obstetrician, I waited for a week after the birth before I started doing gentle 20-minute workouts at home, though I’m avoiding abdominal exercises and jogging for a few weeks.

Various studies have proved that exercising during pregnancy and the three months after birth can also help minimise the likelihood of developing post-natal depression.

Now, three weeks after the birth, a  welcome by-product of maintaining my fitness during pregnancy is that I’m already back in my size eight jeans.

None of this is done or said out of vanity. Like millions of women, I simply love the feeling of being fit and strong.

I was fortunate that I didn’t have complications during pregnancy and felt  well so was able to continue to exercise.

I did my homework on the physiological changes that happen during pregnancy, poring over books on the subject, and seeking advice from my husband.

The last thing I would ever have compromised was the health of my unborn baby. Crucially, I listened to my body constantly. If I had days when I felt tired, I’d settle for walking the dog.

Consultant gynaecologist and obstetrician Clive Spence Jones agrees that I did the right thing. ‘If you’re inactive while pregnant then the chances are you’re going to gain excess weight,’ he says.

‘What’s required is a balanced diet and regular moderate exercise. I don’t advocate high-impact exercise such as skiing or contact sports. Most women shouldn’t stop exercising while pregnant.’

Advice from the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists also states that far from harming mother or unborn baby, being physically active is beneficial to both.

It recommends making activities such as walking, cycling, swimming, low-impact aerobics and  gardening part of everyday life, and keeping sedentary spells to a minimum.

To my detractors, I’d like to point out the many confessions I have read from women this last week who say they bitterly regret putting their feet up and eating for two while pregnant, and wish they’d made the effort to be physically active â€" they have found it impossible to shift the masses of weight they gained and felt unfit when it came to the demands of  a baby.

I’m proud to be the jogging mo ther and as Heidi grows up I want to be a great role model, ensuring that she experiences the physical and emotional benefits of being active at every stage of life.

Here's what other readers have said. Why not add your thoughts, or debate this issue live on our message boards.

The comments below have been moderated in advance.

I am pleased for her, she has a beautiful daughter and she should be very proud.

I think the only negative thing I would point out is that the APGAR score isn't really a parenting competition, which she implies it is. It is simply a way of scoring how healthy a baby appears to be immediately after birth and in the 'normal' range I wouldn't say it has any bearing on the future outcome for the child. The implication that she thinks that "My baby did better than your baby, so ner ner" was a little bit cringeworthy.

Great role model to all mums and soon to be mums though!

A SIXTEEN hour labour and a Ventouse suction cap? That's textbook? I agree she's probably tough enough to withstand the agony of contractions....anyone who can jog whilst carrying an 8lb baby plus accompanying fluids, must feel no pain - however she did not have a 'textbook' labour and APGAR testing (Appearance, Pulse, Grimace, Activity, Respiration) does not make long term predictions regarding a baby's health. During pregnancy, all things in moderation - including exercise. I don't consider excessively 'pounding the pavement', whilst carrying a full term baby, moderation.

Congratulations!! What a beautiful little baby. To all of those who suggest she is smug, so what if she is! She has proved all those idiotic remarks about how she was harming her child through exercise to be complete nonsense! I also thinks she looks fabulous having given birth just weeks ago!

Brenda Blessed - I would like to see the sources of your information. What harm could've been done to the child? What studies and experiences are you citing? There have been many women who posted here and said they continued to jog/run during their pregnancies, and the babies are just fine. Perhaps you are jealous you sat on your bottom the whole time and still can't shake the weight? It's okay, but no reason to spout nonsense that has no factual backing. However every woman is different and should be in tune with their body. Don't push yourself too hard and don't worry about having off days. Good for all you ladies staying fit and active!

Bravo.

Rebecca Hogarth, Leicester UK, 13/5/2012 01:16 and 01:19 ------- What nonsense! This wasn't an experiment. After reading about this lady, she already exercised alot, and did a lot of research making sure that if she carried on exercising while pregnant she wouldn't harm her baby. She never said anything about wanting to be a supermodel. She wanted to be fit and healthy for her baby. I think she is an inspiration to mums-to-be and looks radiant, healthy and has a gorgeous, healthy daughter.

"I have no problem with what she did - what I do have a problem with is her smug, self righteous attitude! Lucky her having a smooth and easy labour and birth but is she suggesting that the problems I had during labour with my son and resultant emergency c-section were my fault for not exercising more? I am sick of being told how I could/should be a better mother when it is most important to find out what styles of parenting suit you and to enjoy raising your children your way."-----There you go assuming because this woman never said anything about other expectant mothers not jogging, so why are you attacking her? This woman was minding her own business while jogging and people took it upon themselves to attack her for doing what she felt was best for HER.

I thought doctors recommended this kind of thing for pregnant women.

I have no problem with what she did - what I do have a problem with is her smug, self righteous attitude! Lucky her having a smooth and easy labour and birth but is she suggesting that the problems I had during labour with my son and resultant emergency c-section were my fault for not exercising more? I am sick of being told how I could/should be a better mother when it is most important to find out what styles of parenting suit you and to enjoy raising your children your way. Come on, let's support each other doing this difficult job, not run each other down! (pun intended!)

Congratulations on such a healthy bundle of joy! May you all have a long and healthy life together!

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